Natural Born Philosophers?

Some would look at nature for wonderment, I would too… at the human nature. Funny how we would unconsciously form habits and conclusions, letting them determine our judgments and pattern our way of living.
The most mundane of us have their theories which make them unique.
I think we're all philosophers in our own habitual way. We may not bear that conviction, nor have a personal bestseller "book of perspective".
I don't want to talk about my philosophies, but rather talk about a friend's personal theories, and self-concluded explanations of things.
To example a hypothesis of hers, Cherry –let's call her- believes in the X-Factor… What is the X-Factor? Hmm… neither of us can exactly define it, but I'll try to explain by saying that it is an X (unknown) component that some people have, which enables them to be a center of attraction. It is not about innate sex appeal, it is not about intellection, nor it is about the "spirit".
Is it genetic? "Nope", says Cherry, since she feels a lacking of the X-Factor –which is a disputable point!-, but explains its unfounded existence in another family member.
Hmm… okay Cher, I'll try to look at it from your perspective… so, you're saying that you do not feel the attention that is stimulated by the X-Factor when dressing a certain way, but when the other family member borrows the same clothes, you see a hypothetical spot light cast on her? …The X-Factor it is :)
Oh btw, it's flattering that you'd perceive me as one of the X-Factor carriers…ha! …kinda ironic, but let's question that later, shall we?

We both agree on the "life will come back to bite you in the ass" philosophy! But to introduce a particular one that Cherry has come to determine after series of self-inflicted experiments : the "One step forwards, one step backwards" theory! This conclusion sounds like some sort of a dance, which it is in a way. It's a game that two- or more- people would unconsciously indulge to prove a point, …or nothing!
To clarify this theory I have to –bitterly- go back to a certain time in my life where there was a someone that I expected something from. I would make an effort to be in a certain place in his life, but I felt that I did not exactly get what I was hoping for, so I simply backed off, next thing I knew is.. he's made a move of his own as if to compliment my own... hmm...
Same thing is going on with Cherry, she wanted to get this guy we like to call Jesus (how convenient!) she didn't feel that he was interested at first, but ever since she dismissed him, he seemed to be giving her the proper attention. Ironic, no ?
Well Cher, I totally agree with you on this one, but I simply call it the "Mockery of Life". Ah well…
Anyways, I'm glad that you finally decided to start your own blog. I look forward to your next post.