Fateless Fate

Some people believe in Fate, they would tell you a utopian idea- "everything that is meant to happen, eventually will". I call them romantic fools.
If there's something you want to happen, don't sit on your ass and say that it's inevitable because it's written in the stars. That's ridiculous. I would advocate Practicality, you want something, you have to work for it. If you don't, it wouldn't just crawl your way. Just accept the fact that it won't happen, so it would be better if you'd just start working on forgetting about it.
Sometimes things just never happen, and if you're mature enough you'll accept that.
Still, a person you know for neutrality in action might get it all, and you wouldn't reap what you sow, but that's not fate, right? …I call it the "mockery of life".
I think fate is a created concept –just as religion- to soothe the restraining impulse that we have of hoping, and holding on to something… even if it's not there.